A post from No Impact Man yesterday fits well into the theme of this blog:
http://noimpactman.typepad.com/blog/2008/08/business-people.html
Feel free to check it out and let me know what you think.
Friday, August 22, 2008
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Feeling the change
From March to June, I struggled a lot with the consumerism stuff. I went to Wal Mart for cereal and came home with markers, candles, a new t-shirt.
I knew I didn't NEED these things. I asked myself honestly if I even WANTED these things. Or was I compensating for other unmanageable areas in my life by shopping? And not even for good stuff, but for mediocre every day clutter. Just come on over. You'll see exactly what I mean.
Even with all of our decluttering before Mother's Day, my house barely looks any better. And even though I have been seriously conscious of what I'm buying, I was still rationalizing a lot of purchases. Of stuff. I was stressed out at work and suddenly, a few candles- on sale- were exactly what I needed. I hadn't slept well and jewelry making beads that I don't have time to use right now were the perfect color to match my church dress or R's new shirt. . . small purchases became justifiable.
And in July, I finally had the paradigm shift. I have never gone to a store just to browse, so that certainly helped my initial spending patterns. But, once at the store, I rarely had a list or stuck to the reason for the visit. I would find myself wandering aimlessly through the aisles, in some cases because I knew there was one more thing I needed and in other cases because I wasn't focused and would pass things I had come in for. And I really really love clearance aisles. Which is a problem in itself.
But in July, it finally occurred to me (I'm a slow learner) that the only way I was going to overcome this was to keep my shopping trips very very short. 20 minutes short. And it's working. I don't wait to go to Walmart until I have 20 items that will take me 2 hours to find. I go every week or so. But , I only get what's on my list. And I get multiples of things that we replace often. Shampoo, soap, dental floss, toothbrushes, cereal, etc. Anything that stores can be bought in bulk. I do it all of the time with food, but for whatever reason, I was out of the habit with personal hygiene items. Now, I spend my 20 minutes in 2 aisles and I'm stocked up for a month and done, out of there with no impulse buys and no wasted time. Well, except for the time wasted in line to check out. That painful part is unavoidable.
Now, it's the end of August and I haven't been to WalMart since. . . hmm. I can't remember my last trip. It might have been just before scout camp because E claimed he only owns 3 pair of underwear. If so, that was 3 weeks ago. Not counting the trip for L to get an ipod cover that she couldn't live without. . . I didn't buy anything. A trip to WalMart with no purchases. Another victory in and of itself!
Today, I'm going through my mental list of things we are low on or need and I can't come up with anything. Nothing at all. Not even cereal. Please let this victory last!
I knew I didn't NEED these things. I asked myself honestly if I even WANTED these things. Or was I compensating for other unmanageable areas in my life by shopping? And not even for good stuff, but for mediocre every day clutter. Just come on over. You'll see exactly what I mean.
Even with all of our decluttering before Mother's Day, my house barely looks any better. And even though I have been seriously conscious of what I'm buying, I was still rationalizing a lot of purchases. Of stuff. I was stressed out at work and suddenly, a few candles- on sale- were exactly what I needed. I hadn't slept well and jewelry making beads that I don't have time to use right now were the perfect color to match my church dress or R's new shirt. . . small purchases became justifiable.
And in July, I finally had the paradigm shift. I have never gone to a store just to browse, so that certainly helped my initial spending patterns. But, once at the store, I rarely had a list or stuck to the reason for the visit. I would find myself wandering aimlessly through the aisles, in some cases because I knew there was one more thing I needed and in other cases because I wasn't focused and would pass things I had come in for. And I really really love clearance aisles. Which is a problem in itself.
But in July, it finally occurred to me (I'm a slow learner) that the only way I was going to overcome this was to keep my shopping trips very very short. 20 minutes short. And it's working. I don't wait to go to Walmart until I have 20 items that will take me 2 hours to find. I go every week or so. But , I only get what's on my list. And I get multiples of things that we replace often. Shampoo, soap, dental floss, toothbrushes, cereal, etc. Anything that stores can be bought in bulk. I do it all of the time with food, but for whatever reason, I was out of the habit with personal hygiene items. Now, I spend my 20 minutes in 2 aisles and I'm stocked up for a month and done, out of there with no impulse buys and no wasted time. Well, except for the time wasted in line to check out. That painful part is unavoidable.
Now, it's the end of August and I haven't been to WalMart since. . . hmm. I can't remember my last trip. It might have been just before scout camp because E claimed he only owns 3 pair of underwear. If so, that was 3 weeks ago. Not counting the trip for L to get an ipod cover that she couldn't live without. . . I didn't buy anything. A trip to WalMart with no purchases. Another victory in and of itself!
Today, I'm going through my mental list of things we are low on or need and I can't come up with anything. Nothing at all. Not even cereal. Please let this victory last!
Wednesday, July 30, 2008
Tuesday, July 29, 2008
No More Commercials
We made the jump and got rid of cable. We have gone without cable frequently in the past as well, but of course the kids were younger then and not so involved in TV shows. Like American Idol. Hopefully, all of the performances will be on YouTube the next day.
I just have a very low tolerance for television in general. There is something about all of the commercials aimed at encouraging kids to beg their parents to buy them things which makes me nuts. And Nate falls for them like no other. He is convinced that a certain toy or a type of food will totally change his life. It got to the point that every time he watched TV, he was begging me to take him to the store for something. So the marketing is effective. And that is why I finally pulled the plug.
Instead, they have video games, netflix, YouTube, and Hulu. I'll probably end up regretting all of those too!
I just have a very low tolerance for television in general. There is something about all of the commercials aimed at encouraging kids to beg their parents to buy them things which makes me nuts. And Nate falls for them like no other. He is convinced that a certain toy or a type of food will totally change his life. It got to the point that every time he watched TV, he was begging me to take him to the store for something. So the marketing is effective. And that is why I finally pulled the plug.
Instead, they have video games, netflix, YouTube, and Hulu. I'll probably end up regretting all of those too!
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Item of the Month
From now on, we will have an item or class of items that we do without each month to see if we really can wean ourselves away from the madness.
This month, it's packaged cookies, crackers, and snack type foods. Why wean away:
1) None of them are healthy.
2) The ones we make taste better anyway
3) I am sick of buying snacks for a particular event only to find them eaten up before they can get packed and eaten at the event they were purchased for. And isn't it funny how every single time I find and empty box, the poltergeists we obviously live with get blamed?
So, for one month, no store bought treats, unless they are already in my house. And those probably won't last past tomorrow. Thank goodness Ellie is really good at baking cookies. And Evan has no-bake cookies to a science.
This month, it's packaged cookies, crackers, and snack type foods. Why wean away:
1) None of them are healthy.
2) The ones we make taste better anyway
3) I am sick of buying snacks for a particular event only to find them eaten up before they can get packed and eaten at the event they were purchased for. And isn't it funny how every single time I find and empty box, the poltergeists we obviously live with get blamed?
So, for one month, no store bought treats, unless they are already in my house. And those probably won't last past tomorrow. Thank goodness Ellie is really good at baking cookies. And Evan has no-bake cookies to a science.
Monday, July 14, 2008
Nervous
SO, I can't help but be extremely nervous, realizing that no matter how we slice it, the Fannie/Freddie disaster impacts our country in ways no one can fully realize. The impact is huge to mortgages, to financial markets, to the taxpayers, to the entire economy.
In reading blogs, opinions, and news stories today, Jim Kunstler stands out:
There's a particular moment known to all Baby Boomers when Wile E. Coyote, in a rapture of over-reaching, has run past the edge of the mesa and, still licking his chops and rubbing his front paws in anticipation of fricasseed roadrunner, discovers that he is suspended in thin air by nothing more than momentum. Grin becomes chagrin. He turns a nauseating shade of green, and drops, whistling, back to earth thousands of feet below, with a distant, dismal, barely audible thud at the end of his journey. We are Wile E. Coyote Nation.
Is there anyone in the known universe who thinks that the US financial system is not fifty feet beyond the edge of the mesa of credibility?
But I look around at my neighbors and my friends and although I know people are feeling the pinch of higher gas prices, I don't think anyone recognizes the impact the banking collapse is having. Or the impact on the dollar that a government bailout leads to. People seem to think food and oil and housing will recover within a year or two.
And I feel like a raving lunatic to keep harping on the need for canned food, gardens, and self-sufficiency. Stark raving. I hope I'm wrong. But I'm buying more rice. . .
In reading blogs, opinions, and news stories today, Jim Kunstler stands out:
There's a particular moment known to all Baby Boomers when Wile E. Coyote, in a rapture of over-reaching, has run past the edge of the mesa and, still licking his chops and rubbing his front paws in anticipation of fricasseed roadrunner, discovers that he is suspended in thin air by nothing more than momentum. Grin becomes chagrin. He turns a nauseating shade of green, and drops, whistling, back to earth thousands of feet below, with a distant, dismal, barely audible thud at the end of his journey. We are Wile E. Coyote Nation.
Is there anyone in the known universe who thinks that the US financial system is not fifty feet beyond the edge of the mesa of credibility?
But I look around at my neighbors and my friends and although I know people are feeling the pinch of higher gas prices, I don't think anyone recognizes the impact the banking collapse is having. Or the impact on the dollar that a government bailout leads to. People seem to think food and oil and housing will recover within a year or two.
And I feel like a raving lunatic to keep harping on the need for canned food, gardens, and self-sufficiency. Stark raving. I hope I'm wrong. But I'm buying more rice. . .
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Off the Wagon
The last month included far more trips to WalMart than any human actually needs to make in a lifetime. And SIGH, there is one more in the works. Because honestly, I have fallen off the wagon. I haven't fallen severely, but none-the-less, I have been very lazy about making do with whatever we have rather than buying more stuff.
And it occurs to me that it's once again a reflection on the nature of the work/spend cycle. I have been working a lot lately, trying to keep customers happy. When customers stay happy, I am rewarded with a lovely pay check. When I receive said lovely paycheck, I immediately begin to think of all of the effort that went into earning that paycheck. Which reminds me that I will need equally as much effort to earn another check just like it (maybe I should rethink working on commissions) and I instantly start to think of all of the things that will make my life easier if I get them. Which must be a result of programming, because I know that short of a washer which collects, sorts, pre-treats, washes, dries, folds and puts away all of the clothing in my house, there's not much I can think of that makes life easier. Ibuprofen. Demerol. But that's just the arthritis talking. . .
I am still more aware of my spending and my consumption than I was this time last year, but I have to be better. Especially about books.
But if someone invents an oven that does the grocery shopping, I'm whipping out the credit card.
And it occurs to me that it's once again a reflection on the nature of the work/spend cycle. I have been working a lot lately, trying to keep customers happy. When customers stay happy, I am rewarded with a lovely pay check. When I receive said lovely paycheck, I immediately begin to think of all of the effort that went into earning that paycheck. Which reminds me that I will need equally as much effort to earn another check just like it (maybe I should rethink working on commissions) and I instantly start to think of all of the things that will make my life easier if I get them. Which must be a result of programming, because I know that short of a washer which collects, sorts, pre-treats, washes, dries, folds and puts away all of the clothing in my house, there's not much I can think of that makes life easier. Ibuprofen. Demerol. But that's just the arthritis talking. . .
I am still more aware of my spending and my consumption than I was this time last year, but I have to be better. Especially about books.
But if someone invents an oven that does the grocery shopping, I'm whipping out the credit card.
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